{"id":6156,"date":"2025-10-21T15:23:50","date_gmt":"2025-10-21T15:23:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gospelinlife.com\/?post_type=article&#038;p=6156"},"modified":"2025-10-27T18:06:57","modified_gmt":"2025-10-27T18:06:57","slug":"there-is-one-true-king","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/gospelinlife.com\/article\/there-is-one-true-king\/","title":{"rendered":"There Is One True King"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I want to be the best parent I can be to my three children. But in looking at all the ways I want a do-over or could be better, if I get one thing right, I want it to be that they love Jesus and desire him to be king of their lives. It\u2019s something I\u2019ve talked about many times with each of them when they were facing challenges or big decisions. Because\u2014let\u2019s face it\u2014we all want to be the king in our own lives. The poem \u201cInvictus\u201d by William Ernest Henley is famous for its final lines:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>It matters not how strait the gate,<br>How charged with punishments the scroll,<br>I am the master of my fate,<br>I am the captain of my soul. \n\n<span data-footnote>\n    <a href=\"#\" data-footnote-trigger>[]<\/a>\n    <span data-footnote-body>[1] William Ernest Henley, \u201cInvictus.\u201d https:\/\/www.poetryfoundation.org\/poems\/51642\/invictus.<\/span>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>We all want to be king<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The challenge is that since the beginning of humanity in the garden of Eden, there has been one unchanged aspect of the human heart\u2014deep down in our soul we all desire to be the king of our lives. We are unwavering in our determination to unseat the rightful and only true king, Jesus Christ. It is not always obvious to us, and we need to constantly look at God\u2019s Word to combat our tendencies to make ourselves king.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>An old bumper sticker said: \u201cJesus is my co-pilot\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Years ago you could find the phrase \u201cJesus [or God] is my co-pilot\u201d on mugs, t-shirts and bumper stickers quite frequently. It was a trend that I guess was supposed to show some sort of connection to God and to imply that people allowed God to help lead their life. To that catchphrase I say, \u201cNo, he\u2019s NOT!\u201d Let\u2019s be honest, if we are using metaphors for how we relate to the creator of the universe, he\u2019s <strong><em>not<\/em><\/strong> the co-pilot. When you think for a minute about the ways we all make mistakes daily, we don\u2019t even have any business being in the cockpit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The irony is that we are insufficient to rule our lives, as disordered and self-destroyed as we are, but we still think we are best suited to run things. As another poet, Shel Silverstein, wrote in his poem \u201cGod\u2019s Wheel,\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>GOD says to me with a kind<br>of smile, \u201cHey how would you like<br>to be God awhile And steer the world?\u201d<br>\u201cOkay,\u201d says I, \u201cI\u2019ll give it a try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Where do I set?<br>How much do I get?<br>What time is lunch?<br>When can I quit?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cGimme back that wheel,\u201d says GOD.<br>\u201cI don\u2019t think you\u2019re quite ready YET.\u201d \n\n<span data-footnote>\n    <a href=\"#\" data-footnote-trigger>[]<\/a>\n    <span data-footnote-body>[2] Shel Silverstein, \u201cGod\u2019s Wheel.\u201d https:\/\/hellopoetry.com\/poem\/599\/gods-wheel.<\/span>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>We need a true king who rules justly, self-sacrificially, lovingly and mercifully. We, on the other hand, when we make ourselves king, are greedy, merciless, self-serving, blame-shifting, self-justifying, and lacking generosity and empathy\u2014not kingly at all. When we\u2019re honest about our true nature, we know we are <em>not<\/em> king material. And the discovery that comes with giving Christ his rightful place as king of our lives is that this is what we were designed for and where our true identity rests\u2014as children of our Heavenly Father, who should rightfully occupy the throne of our heart as our glorious, gracious and loving king.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-1a17336c uagb-blockquote__skin-quotation uagb-blockquote__align-left uagb-blockquote__style-style_2 uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><span class=\"uagb-blockquote__icon\"><svg width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewBox=\"0 0 32 32\"><path d=\"M7.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.357-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086zM25.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.358-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\">When we\u2019re honest about our true nature, we know we are not king material.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When we see God as defined in the scripture, we can begin to see that although we deserve no place with him, he graciously invites us into his amazing <em>king<\/em>dom with love and kindness. A better metaphor for how we might view our relationship with God is in the parable of the prodigal son. We ask for what we don\u2019t deserve and then waste the riches given to us on foolish choices, lavishing ourselves in unjustified self-indulgent living. Then, when our aspirations to be the king of our lives crash, and we crawl back to him broken and feeling as though we are without hope, our king runs to greet us with open arms and prepares a feast!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>We can know our king through his Word<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psalm 1 begins,&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image alignright uagb-block-f857156d wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-right\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gospelinlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Cooke-1-1-1024x765.jpg ,https:\/\/gospelinlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Cooke-1-1-scaled.jpg 780w, https:\/\/gospelinlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Cooke-1-1-scaled.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/gospelinlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Cooke-1-1-1024x765.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"uag-image-6177\" width=\"579\" height=\"434\" title=\"Cooke-1\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cBlessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the wicked,<br>nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of scoffers;<br>But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he<br>meditates day and night.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014Psalm 1:1-2, ESV<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>The use of \u201cLord\u201d and the juxtaposition of \u201cthe wicked, the sinners and the scoffers\u201d makes a clear delineation between those who have made themselves king and those who have a Lord and are delighting in his <strong>KING<\/strong>ship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All of scripture tells us that wisdom is to delight in the Word and meditate on it all the time. When we do that, we see how our Lord (and king) will make everything the way it should be in our lives\u2014and we will have an unshakeable identity and strength that will carry us through every day with hope, love and assurance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Submission isn\u2019t a bad word<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The key is that we must submit to our rightful king, rather than wanting to dethrone him and be one ourselves. In the first half of Romans 6, Paul talks about being dead to sin or our \u201cold self\u201d with its sinful nature.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201c<em>For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin\u2014because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014Romans 6:6-7, NIV<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>He\u2019s pointing out that every day I need to recalibrate to the fact that my old self and its desire to be king is no longer in charge\u2014it\u2019s \u201cdead,\u201d and my new redeemed self as a child of the king begins each day as the anchor of my identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We need to humble ourselves and joyfully submit to our king. All through scripture we see examples of how God relates to the proud vs. the humble, like in James 4:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201c\u2018God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.\u2019 <\/em><strong><em>Submit yourselves<\/em><\/strong><em>, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. [\u2026] Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.\u201d&nbsp; <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014James 4:6-10<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>As Christians are sanctified, there is a clear progression where we grow in our service as faithful followers of Christ, submitting to the rightful kingship of Christ in our lives more and more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the essence of a faithful subject under a king is one that runs counter to our inclinations\u2014<strong>Humility, Submission, Loyalty, Service, Identity<\/strong>. Tim Keller often quoted Soren Kierkegaard\u2019s definition of sin: that sin is anything where we place our identity in something other than God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The ultimate problem the world has always had is the overabundance of undeserving self-appointed \u201ckings.\u201d Throughout history humans refuse to acknowledge the one and only true king, and instead of experiencing his just, gracious rule, they trade it for war, strife, greed, malice, bigotry, hate and the like.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In Matthew 23 Jesus gives example after example as he goes directly after the Pharisees, recounting how they have been hypocrites and worse. At the end of the chapter, he uses the metaphor of a hen and how she will gather her chicks under her wings for protection to describe how Jerusalem (like young children) have responded to him. It\u2019s a demonstration of how we are all like little children who need a place that is safe under the authority and love of a superior. And in the metaphor, Jesus puts himself as the parent and us as the children. He offers his protection, his safety, his love; and we reject him outright. The outcome he describes\u2014when we reject him and live as our own rulers\u2014is one of desolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>\u201cJerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and <\/em><strong><em>you were not willing<\/em><\/strong><em>. Look, your house is left to you desolate.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014Matthew 23:37-38, NIV<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>The things earthly kings produce have made every person who ever thought about it ask, \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong with the world?\u201d We repeatedly fail (miserably) when we make ourselves king.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The beauty of our king<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But imagine the converse of the example Christ gave: choosing to come under his wings and let him be king. In that case, we can have everything we need. We don\u2019t have to fear what may happen to us\u2014because we are under the care and love of the one true king. When we give our lives to Jesus\u2014and as Paul taught, die to our old self\u2014a whole new world opens up to us that has a trajectory toward how our creator (and king) designed us to be. He was willing to give up his throne to save us. Why then would we not give up our desire to be king of our lives in order to have an eternal, loving relationship with our rightful king?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-ad6d21d0 uagb-blockquote__skin-quotation uagb-blockquote__align-left uagb-blockquote__style-style_2 uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><span class=\"uagb-blockquote__icon\"><svg width=\"20\" height=\"20\" viewBox=\"0 0 32 32\"><path d=\"M7.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.357-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086zM25.031 14c3.866 0 7 3.134 7 7s-3.134 7-7 7-7-3.134-7-7l-0.031-1c0-7.732 6.268-14 14-14v4c-2.671 0-5.182 1.040-7.071 2.929-0.364 0.364-0.695 0.751-0.995 1.157 0.358-0.056 0.724-0.086 1.097-0.086z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\">We can have everything we need&#8230; because we are under the care and love of the one true king.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a magnificent old hymn that captures some of the majesty and beauty of Christ as King. If you grew up in church you may be familiar with it. These words bring to life some of the beauty and awe of his kingliness that help us see why <em>he<\/em> must sit on the throne of our hearts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Crown Him with Many Crowns<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Crown Him with many crowns,<br> The Lamb upon His throne;<br>Hark! how the heav\u2019nly anthem drowns<br>  All music but its own!<br>  Awake, my soul, and sing<br>  Of Him who died for me,<br>And hail Him as thy matchless King<br>  Through all eternity.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Crown Him the Lord of Love:<br>  Behold His hands and side;<br>Rich wounds yet visible above<br>  In beauty glorified:<br>  No angel in the sky<br>  Can fully bear that sight,<br>But downward bends his burning eye<br>  At mysteries so bright.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Crown Him the Lord of peace,<br>  Whose power a scepter sways<br>From pole to pole, that wars may cease,<br>  And all be prayer and praise.<br>  His reign shall know no end,<br>  And round His pierced feet<br>Fair flowers of glory now extend<br>  Their fragrance ever sweet.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Crown Him the Lord of years,<br>  The Potentate of time.<br>Creator of the rolling spheres,<br>  Ineffably sublime.<br>  All hail, Redeemer, hail!<br>  For Thou hast died for me;<br>Thy praise shall never, never fail<br>  Throughout eternity.<\/em> \n\n<span data-footnote>\n    <a href=\"#\" data-footnote-trigger>[]<\/a>\n    <span data-footnote-body>[3] Matthew Bridges and Godfrey Thring, \u201cCrown Him with Many Crowns.\u201d<\/span>\n<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since the beginning of humanity in the Garden of Eden, there has been one unchanged aspect of the human heart\u2014deep down in our soul we all desire to be the king of our lives. 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